Very unlike me, I just finished listening to the 90+ minute recorded call between Sandra and Chike, and I noticed the following:
Sandra never said Frank did anything wrong to her. Throughout the entire call, she never accused him of cheating on her. Clearly, the cheating allegations she is now making appear to be an afterthought and mere propaganda.
She acknowledged in the call that she is the cheater. Very clearly and unmistakably stated.
In fact, on more than two occasions, she admitted that it was not Frank’s fault. She also acknowledged that he had every right to be angry.
Frank was willing to forgive her if she could stop talking to Chike — something she herself admitted would be difficult, even asking Chike whether he could do without her.
When the news first broke on social media, Frank even posted a picture of the two of them together in an attempt to manage the damage. The man genuinely wanted the relationship to work. He was prepared to forgive.
The so-called “malice” from Frank only began after he obtained evidence that Sandra was cheating on him. It was at that point that he started withdrawing and keeping to himself.
So, is anyone expecting a man who has raw evidence of his wife having sexual affairs with another man to be hugging the woman? I just don't understand what's going before our eyes.
Remember, this was a secretly recorded conversation, so it was as raw and genuine as it could possibly be.
Now tell me again — what exactly was Frank’s offence?
My brother, I genuinely pity young people today. Things have deteriorated badly. I honestly fear for what marriage will look like in the next 15 years. At this rate, it may well be heading towards extinction.
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