Today I am addressing single ladies and if you just listen and understand what I am about to say, you will get married in no time.
I am talking about 3 reasons you are not married.
Not all women want to get married but if you desire marriage there are certain things that's been working against you.
1. The honor factor: So your friend or someone you know is getting married instead of being happy for them you say stuff like "nawa o that little girl? Men are blind o" rejoice with people who have what you want, buy aso ebi and even help out to make the day a success.
Another thing foolish single ladies do is to insult successful and happily married men. Imagine a single girl insulting someone like me, I don't have to say anything but you will never attract a man like me. What you don't honor you can never attract.
2. Stop the Girlfriends Association: So there is a wedding or an event and you go with your girls and sit together. Already all eyes are on you as you get in the hall and all the guys are checking you out, they have plans to approach you but because your friends have formed a barricade around you, he waits for his chance and when he doesn't get one, he backs off.
Some even approach you but your friends keep interrupting and making the guy feel foolish, newsflash! Your friend may be jealous and wishing he approached her. Another thing is the fact that your friends does not like a guy doesn't mean he is not good for you, there are many reasons they may not like a guy and not all is to your advantage. The next time you go out don't sit with your girlfriends biko they are spoiling market for you.
3. Looking for a ready made man: you will never have influence on a man who made money before you met him, yes you can console yourself with his money but your opinion will never really count unlike the woman you discussed and implemented every idea with. Some of you say " what if I suffered with him and he leaves me?" That's a risk that will always be there. What if you don't suffer and he still leaves? Look for a man with a vision, integrity and pride, any man who collects your money and never gives you back has no integrity.
There are many more for now but please apply this mascara of common sense and you will hook Mr Right in Jesus name.
#ThankYouJesus
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