Do You Have a Social Etiquette?
It's always said that first impression matters a lot. Basically people unwittingly define you from the purview of your social relationship than your private life. So you wouldn't like to lose your reputation because of your bad social etiquette.
As a lady, how best can your social life be defined? What comes to people's minds whenever they remember or think about you?
Believe me that social misconduct is on the high rate and it's pretty much easy to be confused about what's socially acceptable. Many of the common sense have gotten lost in the swirling wind of bad advise and worldly trends.
Manners seems to be outdated in this era.
Consequently at some point in my life, I began to feel miserable with myself, I found myself having series of clashes with people around me as I noticed I was stepping on people's toes, and they where stepping on mine too. It wasn't a laughable experience.
Meanwhile, with regards to those unwholesome experiences I had with people, I had to do a proper check and personal scrutiny about myself to ascertain the situation. No sooner had I finished the scrutiny when I realized that it was a question of social etiquette. I had neglected the little practice of social ettiqute.
Most times, we find ourselves reacting to every slightest affront of which aren't necessary. It could be as a result of the stress, hustle and bustle we encounter on a daily basis.
In this new year and decade, we could start up by radiating the aura of finnesse, character, prestige and class.
As a matter of fact, you wouldn't be praised for being rude and mean.
Nobody would want to associate with someone who is less caring because people don't care how much you know until they know how much you care.
Etiquette & Courtsey isn't an uphill task.
Get yourself a worthwhile identity this year, As a lady, always engage in polite conversations, show some more respect, become more honest and considerate in your public life. Learn to offer a seat to an elder, say sorry whenever you are wrong, avoid any slightest form of gossip, smile at people always, walk gracefully, speak graciously, dress elegantly, sit like a royalty etc.
Never forget this: your goal is to radiate the aura of finnesse, character, prestige and class.
Have a glorious week ahead!
Chioma Egwuchukwu
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