Do not marry just because you’ve raised enough money for wedding. Marry because you’ve raised enough money for the marriage. Marriage is a journey. Don’t prepare for an event. Prepare for the marathon journey if you want to get to your destination. If you have enough money for your wedding,not for your marriage,simply forget the wedding and channel the money to your marriage. Why? A wedding is like icing of the cakes. Nice to have,but not necessary. Inform your parents then go to the register and immediately become man and wife.
Even birds won’t lay eggs until they first build a nest. You say you’re a human being,with intellect, yet, you pop out children when you don’t have a job,biz or source of income. Your phallus doesn’t have the right to get hard that would now culminate into a popular manifestation of mundane love when your life is already hard. That’s why you are poor. You reproduce before you produce. Flip that process. Produce wealth first,then use your production to feed your reproduction. Except you are raped,you are fully in control of the number of children you have. Don’t emotionally blackmail your relatives by telling them that your children are suffering. You are the architect of your problems.
Regrettably,some ladies don’t know that money impress lazy girls. When a lady works hard,then a man who has money is just a bonus.
Although,a girl who marries you while you are suffering isn’t a good girl.. Only foolish girls marry you while you are in extreme poverty. You complain that girls are forming hard to get when you’re already hard to want. Truly good girls will work with you to fight poverty before getting married to you and bringing children into the world. It is hard to escape poverty when you marry during times of extreme poverty. Marriage is like a boat. You only invite someone to join you when you have enough space.. if you don’t have enough space and you invite a woman to join you in your boat,both of you will sink. Get a larger boat that can contain two of you before you marry..
Marriage takes place when the girls parents hand her over to the man. How do I know? Adam and Eve never had a church or registry marriage. God simply handed Eve to Adam. You can have a marriage without a wedding. God created marriage. It is man that created wedding. As a matter of fact,many marriages have been ruined by wedding. The couples spend too much on wedding and the financial burden of debt destroyed their marriage..
I wrote this epistle just to curb the mantra bedeviling us when it comes to marriage because am tired of this seemingly,endless and burdensome brouhaha,It wearies me.
Stay safe..
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